Did you actually take the trouble to read the female story I was responding to which I tagged at the start of my story? I doubt it. Believe me it is far more guilty of anything you accuse me of. Whilst your female centric opinion might curry favour with disgruntled women, it will cut no ice with the great many men who have been through a similar experience to mine. You should also read my just published justification, fully supported by statistical facts. It’s full of the academic honesty and true representation that you crave. Re Illumination, anybody is free to express an opinion without being held to biased standards, even you. That is why you have been able to publish your comments here. You are just as much a hostage to your experience as I am to mine. You’ve had one experience and I have had another, period. And neither is your experience indicative of a larger dynamic, indeed, much less so than mine. Generalise? The statistics I have provided in my latest story give a true picture of what goes on and to what degree. You haven’t provided any. You come across as condesendingly, patronisingly holier than thou when in fact your vituperative response with your highly insulting use of language does nothing to lead me to believe that you are being anything less than childish yourself. Time to do some research, educate yourself and grow up.