Feel free to follow the following link and others at the end of that article to get a taste of what lay behind it all. But also thank you for inspiring me to write another more explanatory piece about what reall lay behind what went on. I'll tag you when it's done.

https://medium.com/relationship-stories/how-my-wifes-affair-saved-my-life-bae632029faa?sk=3ba7b8f7779570471ee2fe8f41177db6