Ha haaaaaa, I went through all of this as a man. Here's the thing, it all gets a bit complicated. Because my ex wife was having an affair she wanted to not feel so bad about it. The only thing that would make her feel better would have been if I was having an affair, then she would have felt justified. Then some of her cheating female friends told her "If you think he's having an affair then he probably is." except I wasn't. But her thinking I was, cause she wanted to think I was, made her feel better. See what I mean by complicated. In the end she checked up on me extensively, and of course, she found nothing, because there was nothing. But I also extensively checked on her and......ooooohhhh boy, I went to hell and back. So whilst what you say is true, not always. Nice informative article well done and thank you.