Hey, men nag too, huh? I did say male or female. What you say may be based upon your own experience, and the same goes for me. However, in my case I have always done my share of cooking and cleaning, and for a time I agreed to be a house husband looking after three young children whilst my ex-wife went out to work (well pretend to work, since she was leading a secret double life for a long time). Sit on the couch and play video games? Well that is certainly not me nor the vast majority of my male friends. We don't have a couch nor a video game console. If you ended up with somebody like that I feel sorry for you. Personally I would have just got out of that relationship. What you describe is a sterotypical view of the worst example of a man. But we are not all like that, honey.