Hey Susie, they’re out there, like you say, male and female scum. Thank ther lord we are not all like that. Sorry you had to go through with that. Unbelievably the second wife did exactly the same, copying the same startegy .For me the long lasting effect is that I have four children with two different women and not one of them will have anything to do with me for the toxic lies and brainwashing, The good news is I met number three nine years ago and she is amazing. We get there in the end. Good luck.