I am tired of reaching out to them. They point blank refuse to even give an address so I can send them a Christmas card. They don't respond to emails and will not pick up Skype calls. They have taken their mother's side and want no more to do with me. They have been totally manipulated to see me as the bad guy and their cheating mother as the victim. They preferred the comfort of her lies and rejected the discomfort of the truth. I can do no more. I have given up. I now have a wonderful life and wanted share that with them, but if they do not want it, I can do nothing.