I can tell you from personal experience that western women, brain washed by the extreme feminist movement, do not want to stay at home with the children. They all want to be single mums with a professional career. They have what are called 'latch key kids' who are left to bring themselves up. Father's have been alienated from their children for nothing more than revenge. Anyway, western women have not been deprived of spending intimate time with their kids, they simply do not want it.