I wondered how long it would be for somebody to take me to task on that one. As it happens, my present wife is not at all bossy and we live in peace and harmony. Then you went and ruined it all by saying "...or can't take instruction." and more or less confirmed what I said. "Ha, my first ex used to say, just as she was about to leave for work, "Now I'm going going to give you your directives for the day." Of course, not all women are bossy, but many are. Not all women are batshit crazy, but many are. Not all men are bar stewards, but many are. Also, I have had a great many relationships with all sorts of women, professional and personal, I merely mentioned the two bossy ones. Bossy in the office is one thing, it goes with the territory, bossy in the home is a big no-no for me, and I suspect for lots of other men. Never mind hey, I'm happy as a sand boy these days. Have a nice day.