I'm not in the Uk neither, I now live happily married, for the third time, in Japan to a lovely woman who fills my life with joy. Forget him, he's the past. Now concentrate on you and your fantastic future. Be happy you had a lucky escape and didn't have to wait until you got old to discover the cheating. That would have been awful, for both of us. Often I want to send my exes a thank you note for what they did to me. Get living dear and to hell with them. Good riddance to bad rubbish. :)