OMG this is my story too! I have lived every single part of your friend's life, on a close leash, controlled, living with the in laws.....the whole kit and caboodle. Then I gew a pair of balls and left. And then all her fun and games started.

https://medium.com/illumination/the-hidden-pandemic-that-is-destroying-millions-of-lives-64ded1db7d21?sk=2a3ea31f4a04ae2e35b3b92bc3ca4566