The very idea that all men want to make them happy is on hand sex and somebody to care for all of their daily needs is a misnomer, or at least it is for me. Every one is different. I like stimulating interlectual company. I like to have a laugh at some of the many absurdities of life. Often I just like the tactile touch of a mutually comforting cuddle. There are times when all I want is to be given the time and space to be me. I like nice surprises, even if it is only being given a compliment for doing something well. I could go on, but I think you get the idea.