This was a very good read. I have twice been the cheated on husband have lost everything twice over. Result? Economically ruined forever. Totally estranged and alienated from four children, forever. To my two ex-wives lovers, you totally selfish and utter bastards, you ruined all of our our lives, forever. What’s more, you totally screwed up your own wives and childrens lives. You just might as well have marched in loaded with hand grenades and high power rifles to murder us all, because that is exactly what you did. If I could have gotten away with murder you would have been dead a long time ago.