Well first of all I wasn’t looking for sympathy, I wrote the article to raise awareness that sexual abuse isn’t always male on female. And I certainly wasn’t looking for somebody to be judgmental as to what degree of contact constituted major or minor inappropriate contact and the longevity of any effects. And I also omitted a good deal of information about the number of times it happened and for what duration of time. But hey, whatever floats your boat, I guess.