Well first off, it’s interesting to note that you have chosen to respond in that way, given that I was trying to empathise and be supportive to Ana. Secondly, men and women can be as bad as each other in apportioning blame. In my case I was the one doing the divorcing. In terms of self accountability, yes I did that too, thank you very much. As for feminism, in its extreme form it has done almost as much damage to women as it has to men, in my humble opinion. It has in fact turned men even more against women. Also, one of your second wave heroins, Germaine Greer, has even later confessed that she now considers that she got a lot of things wrong and that liberation was not a freeing concept, it was a destructive one, which I find quite incredible. At least she had the balls to admit it, I suppose.