Well I now live in Beautiful Japan, not too far from Tokyo. Yeah, I had three kids with my first ex and one with the second. I have only recently re-established contact with my eldest son. The others have had their hearts and minds poisoned about me and do not want to know me. I tried to tell them just a little of the truth and they went apeshit with me. Mum is a Saint and Dad is a twat. It's sad, but it's their loss not mine.