Well if you must know the first cheating ex-wife, out of jealousy, set out to destroy the second marriage with malicious lies, and succeeded. I believe that is quite a common thing these days. So I moved far away and waitied many years for the third wonderful woman to arrive. It never ceases to amaze me how much people who don’t know me from Adam ‘know’ so much about me. Or is it the case that you just go along with the hookey narrative that It’s always the bloke, and married three times proves its him?