Wow! Reads like we passed almost exactly the same story, except I didn’t get my kids or mutal friends back. Funny what you said about her being a closet lesbian too, that was what I also had to deal with. Amazing the similarities. My exes also wanted me dead, and I overheard the first one plotting it. And there was an attack. My first ex told me often she felt more masculine than feminine. Well, my friend, we each got through it somehow. Everything you have told me about you’re new love is the same for me. She is twenty years younger than me and accepted I am broke. She supports me! Have a good life and thank you for sharing.